~Self reflect~

~Self reflect~

Self reflect today. The mind is everything. What you think you become.

Life is like an pieces of drawing and it has no eraser. Some people do take thing seriously and some think that life is too short so why take thing so serious. Buddha once said "Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment."

What do you think when you are in argument? Right or wrong is always depend on how you see thing. On the surface or deep into it? To explain, to listen or not to listen. And some said life is about learning.

I always remember this, "when you're hot head what ever you said and you think is okay, it may not be okay for the listening or receiver. Instead go write down what you want to say on paper or notepad. Then once you cool down go read and think is it rude or correct to said all this words? If rude you edit it. Clear mind speak better words and phrase better." Buddha once said: "Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned."

Why do people argue? To solve the problem? To make the problem worst? Or to tell the another ur standing? Next time think of it before the golden mouth start talking. "The tongue like a sharp knife... Kills without drawing blood."

Happiness can be share and sprees. Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.

Why be envy or compare? "Do not overrate what you have received, nor envy others. He who envies others does not obtain peace of mind."

And the last one I can't really remember the quote... Hmmm it is some thing like: "human's eyes have three layers, and if any of this layer can't make your eyes see or think through? Then if you want to sleep also cannot sleep." Thus this mean learn to put thing down, and let the matter rest or stop thinking when there is a need. Over worry or thinking will not get you anywhere.

Until now I feel grandmother is any very successful mother. As I can see, all my aunts, uncle and include my mum are all well manner teaches by her. And this mum always tell me not to laugh at the poor or problem people and always help on them.